Perhaps we use the words differently - I would say that, by definition, when you put yourself first against other people's preferences, then you're being to some extent selfish. But when you've got a good reason to do so, it's sensible and not unreasonable.
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
![[identity profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/openid.png){kind=small}
no subject
Date: 2009-01-21 01:14 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-01-21 02:44 pm (UTC)Yes, I think we do. :-)