Johari window

[wellinghall]

If you would like to say something nice about me*, please take a look at my Johari window.
http://kevan.org/johari?name=wellinghall

*Anonymous compliments would be fine!

Comments

[muuranker.livejournal.com]

An interesting tool.

I am _slightly_ worried that you are thinking of this as a way to gather compliments, rather than as a reality-check or means of exploring.

From your results,it appears that there's a fair amount that others see in you that you don't see, some stuff that you see and we see, but nothing that you see and we don't.

If there's anything you'ld like to explore further, just ask!

[wellinghall.livejournal.com]

Thanks for this, muuranker. I quite see what you mean; I more meant it as opposition to the Nohari window, http://kevan.org/nohari?name=wellinghall, where I and others can pick negative traits to compare. But I somehow didn't really finish the post. Anything you want to contribute to that one would also be appreciated.

[muuranker.livejournal.com]

Oh. I see. But the negative window doesn't have many I'd pick, and the one I really _would_ pick isn't there. It is almost (but not quite) 'unfocussed' - and, perhaps not oddly, it is related to the positive which I didn't spot wasn't there, but now realise that it is something I delight in your having, which is delight-in-the-natural-world. Which is odd, because you are often focussing in binoculars on specific parts of the natural world.

Hmm... maybe (negatively) 'focusses on the wrong things' and (positively) 'focusses on the right things'? But that isn't _quite_ it.

I'm no good at this ... it's like trying to describe the taste of rasberries....

[wellinghall.livejournal.com]

I see. I think. Well, sort of. That is something I'd like to talk to you about ...